Viewing Five Basic Tips for Using Live Music in a Memorial ServiceFive Basic Tips for Using Live Music in a Memorial Service
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Using live music for a "Celebration of Life" makes everyone feel like they have had a special treat. If this is not a viable option, harp music has many physical benefits if played over a decent sound system. Here are five ways to use live music. By Karin Gunderson Using live, acoustic music for a "Celebration of Life" day makes everyone feel like they have had a special treat. Below are five ways to use live music on that day. 1. During the Visitation: (throughout the hour before the service begins or the night before the service) Music relaxes those who are attending and provides a focal point when there is a break in conversation or an uneasiness in what to say. 2. Before the Memorial Service: (as people are arriving) Live music is more personal and welcoming than silence or "muzak". Do not be afraid to request favorite songs. If the musician has access to your requests, s/he will usually try to accommodate your wishes. If there is a special song that the musician cannot make available, plan to download it from the Internet and use it as background music for the video photomontage. Most funeral homes now include a montage as part of the service or viewing or both. 3. During the Memorial Service: (music provides a nice respite from all the speaking) Usually, families choose two to three songs, but you can include as many as three to five songs. Having five songs is common for a Catholic funeral. a. Placement of Solos 1) At beginning: (usually after a welcome and opening prayer) 2) after Scripture reading 3) after eulogy and before pastor's message (in some cases, the message will precede the eulogy) 4) after message or sharing of stories by attendees 5) at end of service (after commendation, closing prayer, and blessing) b. Using a congregation hymn: (like "Amazing Grace," or "How Great Thou Art") This allows those in attendance to feel like they have added something to the service. The best two places for congregational hymns are at the beginning after an opening welcome and at the end of the service. Around the time of the eulogy and remembrances, in the heart of the service, is a difficult time for people to sing, as they are often very emotional. 4. Graveside Service: Often families choose to have a short service of committal at the graveside. An acoustic instrument, like harp or guitar, playing at the graveside as people approach and leave is a comforting presence. Some families also choose to have a solo sung and played at the graveside. 5. At the reception: Choose your favorites or the favorite style of your departed loved one. Consider using lighter songs, waltzes, and classical music to uplift the spirits of funeral-goers. Using live acoustic music in any or all of these ways will enhance the day of a memorial service. If live music is not an option, harp music has many physical benefits if played over a decent sound system. About the Author: The beauty of Karin Gunderson's harp and vocal music proclaims peace and hope thru her hospice ministry, concerts, and CDs. Find encouraging resources, forums, as well as harp and vocal recordings at http://www.healyourgriefsite.com. Article Source: Eulogy Site - http://EulogySite.com More free articles: 1st Rate Articles - 1stRateArticles.com |
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